Daily Submissions

30 Days of Submission #3

Written By: gracie - Aug• 22•11

The prompts are here, and you should read Defer and Submit because… robot sex. Need I say more? I think not.

Next up is this question:

How do you know you are submissive or have the potential to be submissive? How do you feel when you express your submission? (more…)

How Many?

Written By: gracie - Aug• 21•11

Here lately, as we’re re-learning how to do this thing, my Sir has been giving me daily maintenance spankings.  This is hugely satisfying for me in a lot of ways, and one of the biggest of all is that it puts me in the right mindset.  The other day, though, he got me into position and then asked, “How many do you think you deserve?” (more…)

Man in Pain

Written By: gracie - Aug• 21•11

If you’ve been following along at Duality of Pain, you know that pain is something my Sir knows about intimately.  I mentioned that he is slightly older than I am early on, but the ‘slightly’ truly isn’t exaggerated. We’re less than a decade apart.  He uses a cane to help him walk. His blog is an exploration of how his experiences with pain shape him every day, and how they impact his attitude as a Dominant/Daddy.  (more…)


Written By: gracie - Aug• 20•11

I’ve been meaning to tell you guys about this little bit of absurdity since it happened a few days back, and it keeps slipping my mind.  My Sir and I have a lot of fun.  I don’t actually call him Sir all the time (or even most of the time), either.   I use it here for the sake of anonymity and to convey his place in my world/my respect for him, but we’re usually pretty casual.   (more…)

30 Days of Submission #2

Written By: gracie - Aug• 19•11

Thanks to the girl for this prompt!

Describe who you might submit to and how. Are you exclusively submissive in marriage or just in the bedroom? Are you submissive only in the context of a scene or in a role or throughout your daily life? Are you submissive to play partners or only in the context of a relationship? (more…)

Just a Quick Note

Written By: gracie - Aug• 18•11

If you’re reading my Sir’s blog, you’ll notice some similarities in our posts today.  Totally unplanned, but awesome.  Have I mentioned how much I love and respect that man? <3

My Love

Written By: gracie - Aug• 18•11

In my first entry, I talk about how we’ve been on a hiatus from kink, but I’ve yet to really explain why that is.  While it involves a lot of very personal things that I’m not ready to disclose, I think the easiest explanation is to say that I stopped the flow of communication.  My Sir and I have an extremely loving relationship.   He wants to hear my thoughts, opinions, feelings, fears and dreams.  He cares about those things.  We had a huge bond of trust, and built our relationship on it.  (more…)

Making Noise

Written By: gracie - Aug• 17•11

My Sir enjoys audible proof that I am enjoying the things he does to me.  It’s a turn-on for him.  It also, I think, validates my consent, which is hugely important to him.  This can be problematic because I am one of the quietest people you’d ever encounter.   I don’t like the idea that someone might hear me doing deviant (which means ‘sexual’ in my mind) things.  My Sir can usually get around this by tapping into my submission in some way, but even that doesn’t always work. (more…)

30 Days of Submission #1

Written By: gracie - Aug• 16•11

The girl at Defer and Submit posted 30 days of prompts for submission, and it piqued my interest. I’m going to utilize them in order, though I may not use them every day. I’m starting today with the first question:

Does your submission – either what you practice or what you strive for – have a label? Do you view your submission as Taken in Hand, domestic discipline, top/bottom, dominant/submissive, master/slave, owner/pet, or some other description or combination? If you do not use a label, why? (more…)

Some Domestic Discipline Of My Own!

Written By: gracie - Aug• 15•11

It should be noted that we use the principles of domestic discipline to strengthen our marriage.  Our marriage is a 51/49 power split, most days.  That’s pretty far from the more extreme total power exchange relationships in kink, though we’re heading in a direction where my Sir may have more than just the 51%. (more…)